 
Why do I need Selective Search?
Selective Search brings a consultative approach to personal search
assignments. We bring together high caliber individuals by building
close
relationships with our clients, getting to know every individual
on a personal level, and by pre-screening and pre-qualifying clients.
This provides a depth of knowledge you would not otherwise get
in a casual acquaintance. In fact, such depth of resources are
unmatched by any other firm in our industry.
Our results are measurable and lasting - Selective Search has
successfully arranged hundreds of marriages and thousands of relationships.
We
emphasize quality over quantity. It is not the volume of dates
Selective Search finds for you, rather it is our unique ability
to help our clients find the right match, the right relationship
- that defines our success.
Lastly, most Selective Search clients
don't have the time or the inclination to date randomly. They
know what they want
and look
to Selective Search to provide a high-level focused approach,
the expertise and an exceptional pool of individuals to identify
their
ideal mates.
I date frequently, why would I pay a consultant to meet
someone?
Selective Search is not only for people who have trouble finding dates - we cater to individuals who also want a more productive, results oriented approach to finding their mate.
You might enjoy dating multiple people,
but if your objective is to find someone to fall in love with
and spend the rest
of your
life with, then why wouldn't you go about it in the most
strategic, focused way available to you? You invest wisely in other
aspects
of your life, in your profession, finances - why stop short
in your personal life?
Selective Search is just like other
professional services - it frees up your time, makes the right
decisions for you,
and
is
an investment in a better, more fulfilling future.
But the kind of people I am looking for would never join a personal
search firm.
The stigma of using a resource to help you find your mate is long
since dissipated. You are probably no different from every other
discriminating busy executive who would like to meet someone special
but who has too little time, and is tired and unsatisfied with
the average venues for meeting other singles.
Clients of Selective Search aren't the type of people you'd find
in the average dating service, in the classifieds, or online.
Simply, our clients have a lot to offer and are selective about
whom they
meet. They join because they are serious about making a commitment.
When someone pays for a membership and takes the time to go through
our process, they are serious about finding a quality partner.
They place their romantic future in our capable hands so we can
more effectively find them what they are looking for. Selective
Search's introductions are valuable. By the time you have met
the person we introduce you to, you have advance knowledge and
understanding
of the person.
The question you need to ask yourself is, would
you rather have someone pre-screened and pre-qualified for you,
or do you have
endless time on
your hands?
I'm incredibly busy and barely have time
for myself, let alone the time
to devote to a service like this. Why should I bother?
You want a relationship. Someone to share your accomplishments,
love and life with. You keep meeting people you are attracted to,
but find after several dates they're not for you.
A busy professional life seldom allows for dating, let alone
the time and energy it takes to find the right person. And
this is
exactly why Selective Search is right for you.
Selective Search
enables you to make quality use of your time. Instead of spending
energy on weeding through prospective mates
and unfulfilling relationships, Selective Search precisely identifies what
you're looking for and matches you to only those individuals
who meet
your discerning tastes and measures.
We manage your time
for you, helping you spend it with that quality person, rather
than on a quantity of people.
How is Selective Search different
from its competition?
Some people refer to it as seeing "the big picture." Others
talk of our ability to identify opportunities, to discover new
directions. For Selective Search it all comes down to vision, and
specific, practical plans to bring your vision of a romantic relationship
into reality. At Selective Search, we help hard-working professionals
achieve personal relationship success through both our proven methodology
and our exceptional client base.
We further distinguish ourselves as the only personal search firm
for both men and women to extend its network beyond the membership to include global, nationwide and local searches. In seeking the perfect
mate for you, Selective Search does not limit its scope to just
clients. Whether in our membership, or outside it, we look to
find your ideal mate, period.
Selective Search is not a numbers
game. You meet only people you are uniquely qualified for. And
we don't find those qualifications
by asking what your favorite color is, or if you would rather
have
a dog or a cat, or what kind of music you like. Selective Search
digs deeper - to personal beliefs, goals, ambitions, and preferences.
Our
methodology is unique in the industry. We screen each candidate
personally over a 1-2 hour interview. We offer criminal background
checks, continually build intelligence into our proprietary
database, and are completely confidential. You will never
find your profile
sold to a database you will not have a number or mailbox
posted for the world to call. And once someone has been screened
and
we feel there's exact symmetry for you to meet, you get to
talk over
the phone to further ensure that you want to meet in-person.
Lastly,
the depth of our database is unmatched. Selective Search has
simply the best roster of single professionals.
They are
dynamic, attractive, successful, fun, desirable men and
women.
Is Selective Search a safe venue for meeting
people?
Safety is a paramount concern for many people when meeting
someone new. All Selective Search clients are screened initially
over
the phone and then
in-person during a 1-2 hour formal interview, in a comfortable,
refined setting where we get to know the person's goals, likes and dislikes, before they are qualified to become a client.
Upon acceptance, Selective Search performs a background check.
This screening process provides you with the assurance you
would not otherwise
get in a casual dating atmosphere.
As a result of the screening process, you are assured of meeting
only the most compatible, eligible and responsible individuals.
How
will you protect my privacy?
Protecting your privacy isn't just important to Selective Search,
it's a principal of our service offering. Our clients lead
busy, often public lives, as leaders in their industries. We
fully
respect that some clients prefer to keep their use of a personal
search firm confidential.
Selective Search never divulges its list of clients to anyone.
Selective Search absolutely never gives out any personal information
such as addresses, places of employment, referral names, and
associations you may be a member of.
I've used other dating
services in the past, and the experience was less than I expected.
Why should I try Selective Search?
Just like there are less than stellar doctors, lawyers, restaurants
or matchmakers - there are also exceptional ones. We are convinced
that when
you meet us, and experience our service, you will not only
see the difference personal matching provides, you will wonder
why
you ever tried other services.
Finding someone of the same religious
and/or ethnic background is important to me, does Selective
Search have a large enough client base
to help me?
As diverse as the city is, so is Selective Search. We have
clients from many religions and ethnicities and acknowledge
that many
clients have specific requirements relating to those areas
of their lives.
We invite you to call us to discuss your needs. If we feel
we don't have enough clients in our database to make your
match, we will
always be up front and advise you as such.
Selective Search does not discriminate based on age, ancestry, color, disability, national origin, race, religion, sex and sexual orientation, among other characteristics. Selective Search is an equal opportunity employer.
How often can I use
Selective Search?
Selective Search's goal is to find you what you're looking for.
Our methodology, screening process and unique ability to know
what you're
looking for, cuts down on time spent looking for your ideal mate.
This expertise means you won't have to use the service as often
as you would most dating services. We are however, committed
to helping you find the relationship you've been looking for,
no matter
how long it takes.
What is the difference between a Selective Search Client and an Affiliate?
Our Clients retain us to perform a proactive search on their behalf for a fee. In return, they receive their own personal recruiter who actively searches for their ideal life partner. Our focus is on searching, screening, filtering and hand-picking the ideal candidates for each client. As a client our main goal is to introduce you to someone truly extraordinary.
Affiliates may join Selective Search for no fee. After we internally review each Affiliate application, if we believe that an Affiliate is appropriate for one of our Clients that we're pro-actively searching for, we'll contact the Affiliate directly to gain their approval. This may be immediately, within a few weeks or sometimes within several months. Much like an executive recruiter, there are no guarantees. Although there is no fee, our Affiliates are dedicated to making their love life a priority. They understand there is an emotional and time investment involved in our process. In return, Selective Search would never waste a Client or an Affiliates time with an introduction they wouldn't be interested in.
Both single men and women are welcome as Clients and Affiliates.
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